For years I have been talking to my girlfriends about how they lost their virginity and from their stories I had decided to wait to have sex until I was in a committed relationship. To me being in a committed relationship meant that I wouldn't be losing my V-card to a stranger and that I would feel comfortable and secure. I was planning on waiting. I have had opportunities to lose it but I never felt comfortable enough...till this weekend and no I'm not in a relationship. It happened with one of my best friends. I got drunk at a party and once I got taken home my friend asked to come over to hang out. I've known him since my first year in college and I lived with him for a few years. The last party we had at our apartment...we had almost kissed. So he showed up a little after I got home, and we talked about our curiosity for each other. We started kissing and then one thing led to another and there we are on the floor in my hallway. (I couldn't go to my room because I share a room. Also, everyone was asleep so there was only a small chance of getting caught.) After, I was completely shocked, but I was very happy that I had lost my virginity to someone I loved (as a friend) and who I felt completely comfortable with. I was lucky. I had a fun, exciting experience and I have no regrets. A couple nights later...we did it again sober. It was even better.
One's V-card varies in value for every girl. And, depending on the country you're from so does the exchange rate. I hope that girls today wait to have sex until they are with someone who treats them right and who will not be in and out of their life. Only cash in your V-Card if the exchange rate is right.
Cute post! I lost my "V-Card" 29 years ago :)
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